For Heaven's sake, its her own life! i mean this is not the first time when someone broke her engagement n married someone else. So why is Sania Mirza such a huge issue???
Its her wish n will to marry anybody she wants to. In India there are thousands of divorce cases so why are they not made an issue??? She is all over the web, on all the newspaper front pages n became the breaking news of every news channel just because she parted from her college sweetheart n married a Pakistani or is it because she is a celebrity. Big deal!
Marriage is something which is your own choice, when cupid strikes you are completely blind. If Sania n Shoaib wanted to get married it was just because they wanted to stay together.So who are we to interfere, we don't own her. Everybody deserves to make this decision!
She was not the first girl to play tennis in a mini skirt but was criticised and has been a laughter stock since many years. But, i think no one has the right to breach into her personal life or make it a national issue just because she is going to Pakistan.
First she is treated like an outsider by her own countrymen n then she is expected to win every match she plays. Is this justice?
Imagine hundreds of cameras focussed on you all the time, where you dont even have space to breathe. Can you survive like this?
Sania Mirza is a public figure but she also deserves to live her life her own way. We should treat others like humans if we are one and expect to be treated like one!
Friday, April 30, 2010
Thursday, April 29, 2010
Hurdles in life!
What people say is not wrong that life is a rollercoaster. When there are up's, it is certain that there will be down's. During the down drive you will experience tickles and butterflies in your stomach. You can either laugh at it or cry in vain.
It is very easy to shed tears or panic when u see a dagger hanging over your head. But... it is all the more easy to grab a hold on urself and believe that it's not gonna fall and u'll skip away from it. Try it... Trust me it works!
Every individual firmly believes that his problems are the greatest. He is the saddest of all with a huge mountain infront and he standing like a teeny weeny insect below it. In this situation there is a commom question which 'every individual' has..... "WHY ME GOD?" . But no one thinks that if its not them then it has to be someone else or someone else or someone else. When God gives you a million chances to smile then he also deserves to give you atleast a few chances to cry.
Once i met someone who told me that you should always be satisfied with what u have! After sometime i again met someone who said that you should be happy with what you have but not satisfied orelse you'll never want anything else and will be stuck where you are.
Thoughtfully thinking is not what i usually do but these two similarly contradictory statements still run in my mind sometimes. So, after a strife within myself i could comprehend that , being happy n complacent should not stop u from rising. One should always have aims to achieve higher. But, in this race you should not forget or compromise with the former part i.e. being happy.
During this process you might find speed breakers, barricades, u-turns or some dead ends also, like on the roads of Delhi. But that does not stop u from reaching ur destination. Parellel to this, your life cannot always touch a 100 speed ..... you have to come down to 20 or even put a break n come to a standstill sometimes.
My friend told me that, if good times are not permanent then neither will the bad times be. Whatever comes always passes by! If you frown at it, it'll give the same back to you. But, if you smile at it then maybe it'll be a little generous on being hard.
So, pump up yourself, get back the twinkle in your eyes , the giggle in your smile , stand up stout and say, " Come, bring it on......M ready Dude! "
M sure after doing this there will be no chapter in your life called "Hurdles in life" .
It is very easy to shed tears or panic when u see a dagger hanging over your head. But... it is all the more easy to grab a hold on urself and believe that it's not gonna fall and u'll skip away from it. Try it... Trust me it works!
Every individual firmly believes that his problems are the greatest. He is the saddest of all with a huge mountain infront and he standing like a teeny weeny insect below it. In this situation there is a commom question which 'every individual' has..... "WHY ME GOD?" . But no one thinks that if its not them then it has to be someone else or someone else or someone else. When God gives you a million chances to smile then he also deserves to give you atleast a few chances to cry.
Once i met someone who told me that you should always be satisfied with what u have! After sometime i again met someone who said that you should be happy with what you have but not satisfied orelse you'll never want anything else and will be stuck where you are.
Thoughtfully thinking is not what i usually do but these two similarly contradictory statements still run in my mind sometimes. So, after a strife within myself i could comprehend that , being happy n complacent should not stop u from rising. One should always have aims to achieve higher. But, in this race you should not forget or compromise with the former part i.e. being happy.
During this process you might find speed breakers, barricades, u-turns or some dead ends also, like on the roads of Delhi. But that does not stop u from reaching ur destination. Parellel to this, your life cannot always touch a 100 speed ..... you have to come down to 20 or even put a break n come to a standstill sometimes.
My friend told me that, if good times are not permanent then neither will the bad times be. Whatever comes always passes by! If you frown at it, it'll give the same back to you. But, if you smile at it then maybe it'll be a little generous on being hard.
So, pump up yourself, get back the twinkle in your eyes , the giggle in your smile , stand up stout and say, " Come, bring it on......M ready Dude! "
M sure after doing this there will be no chapter in your life called "Hurdles in life" .
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